An Annual Escape

It's been a few weeks since I have posted, we have been on vacation.  At our stage in life we can afford to periodically get away for a couple of weeks and that is exactly what we did.  We spent two weeks in the North West exploring the Oregon and California coast.  While this is the first "big" trip we have taken in a few years to spend un-interrupted time together, we make time each year to do so.  Whether it is a weekend Kayaking and shopping at Caddo Lake and Jefferson, or a weekend in Austin listening to Jazz and visiting the Arboretum, we work diligently to take some time each year to spend focused on each other.  Over time we have created a few rules to help us during this time.

• Disconnect - While we allow a little time at the beginning of the trip to wrap up e-mails and texts, at some point we disconnect.  No, Facebook is not allowed either.  
• Limit Movies - I love a good movie.  As you may know, Hastings is going out of business.  The main reason for this is Patty and I have started purchasing our movies from Amazon which was such a blow to their accounts receivables that they could not survive.  However, movies are not a time for sharing, talking,  or being together.  While you may be present together, there is seldom any interaction.  Movies do not make good one-on-one time.
• Discuss your Future - Where had God taken you this year; where do you feel like he is leading you in the year to come?  What are your hopes and dreams for the future?  I am not talking about action planning, I am talking about dreaming together concerning your future as a couple.
• Do something you both enjoy.  Look for an adventure to be involved in together.  Do something that is outside your comfort zone.  Make memories together!

Taking time each day, each week and each year to focus on your relationship requires discipline and purpose, but the rewards are huge.

Scripture:  Husbands, love your Wife as Christ loves the church.  Ephesians 5:25

Prayer:  Father help us find time together, give us a heart for companionship and friendship, and bless our marriage with the fruit of that relationship.